I don't feel in love anymore. We are in a relationship since one and a half year. What should I do ?

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What exactly do you mean by you don't feel in love?  Are you just comfortable enough that the passion and butterflies has died down?  If that's the case, that's common. If you feel no connection with him at all,  or not attracted to him at all, that's another issue. But passion is passion....passion isn't what love really is.

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I would first try to rekindle it before breaking the relationship off

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I’ve been in that same situation in a long term relationship. I decided that I was going to break up with because I wanted to be by myself and staying with him while not being in love was exhausting, but before I broke up with him I decided to talk to him which was really hard and he took that really hard. After that he kept trying really hard to do everything right and be as nice to me as possible, and despite doing everything right and being perfect I still couldn’t bring that feeling back, so I told him I wanted to breakup. He was really sad but it’s been a little over a year and at the end of the day it was definitely the right thing to do because neither of us would’ve been happy in the relationship if we had prolonged it. There’s so many people in the world that you both would be better off with in a relationship that prolonging it will just waste time!

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I had this happen to me actually a few years ago.  It took me  a long time and talks with friends and my bf of the time before I figured out the problem.  We were just friends. Was a hard break up because my bf at the time didn't understand my concerns ( I was his first gf even though he was 21 and I was 20). But we both moved on and found our current spouses soon after!

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I accidently hit stay in a loveless relationship. My bad. I think you should try to resolve the issues with communication but if he just isnt doing for you what you need after that then leaving isnt a bad decision. Don't stay unhappy forever you may regret not leaving later. But if its worth sticking it out and working through your problems then so be it. Only you know what to do. Follow your heart and make yourself happy! Everyone deserves that much. Good luck.

I don't feel in love anymore. We are in a relationship since one and a half year. What should I do ?

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