What would you do?

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If you found out your husband of 30 years cheated on you once 10 years ago but never did it again and feels awful about it, would you divorce?￼

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That's not any easy yes or no. Why? With whom? Do you know her? Can you forgive him? Are there other issues?

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I feel like there is a lot more I need to know to answer this question. Who, why, when, where. How do you feel, do you really think it was just once? It’s a case bu case thing and really depends on how you feel in your heart.

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I would try my hardest to forgive and forget. However, if I just couldn’t get past it after making a true effort then I’d leave.

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Did he confess? How do you know only once? That’s a tough one

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Since it was so long ago and only once then I probably wouldn't have divorced but your going to constantly think of that and it's probably always going to be on your mind now. Idk it really all depends. If he had sex with her then yes I'd leave. If he flirted and only texted, then no... Idk

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I would want to forgive him but my mind would not forget it. I'd constantly wonder if he lied about when and how often and who it was and why. I couldnt trust anymore

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What would I do? I would highly question if he’s telling the truth. 
Once ten years ago only? Doubt it.

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