How would you feel in this situation?

What would you personally do?

My daughters father just recently as of last week become apart of my daughters life

She is two months now going on three

I took him to get child support for her because I really felt I would be doing this alone after how he made me feel

the results came back positive

he was the father and that day he was a completely different person...

The person that I always fought for him to be, but so willingly it almost still feels as if it is surreal

He’s seen her almost everyday, calls, asks for pictures and videos, told his family, his parents, put her as his background, making decisions with me, really going out of his way, we agreed to co parenting

Things have been so great. I’m happy to say the least BUT

Before I got my results on him being my daughters father from the day I found out I was pregnant till then... it was complete humiliation, emotional abuse, neglect, name calling, and it was one of the darkest times I have ever been though

I would be alone crying my eyes out while pregnant, he would tell me id always be alone, to enjoy being a single mother, and that he would never be a father to THAT child.

His girlfriend now got on Snapchat and calls me a psycho whore and blocked me

He made me feel crazy, and so desperate, humiliated,

I really didn’t enjoy my pregnancy the way I would of liked to. I was so stressed out

My daughter was born and he missed her birth after telling me he would be there

If it wasn’t for my family I’m not sure what would have happened

She’s also my rainbow baby

I lost a daughter at 16

I’m 30 now with my 2 month old

But she’s just so special to me

I’m just in a place where I would like to move forward but also it’s like I still haven’t healed from the pain this man has caused me, he’s met my family, I’ve already met his brothers, I’m meeting the parents next weekend

He told me he was sorry, and that he had his doubts before, that he will show me with his actions he will be the best father to our daughter, that he will do whatever it takes

I’m just confused as how to feel

But I am allowing him to prove himself and be there for our daughter because her having a father for my daughter is what I always wanted.. so hopefully he steps up to the plate.

And I am still doing child support regardless

THE GIRLFRIEND JUST CAME INTO THE PICTURE TWO MONTHS AGO. I DID NOT SLEEP WITH HIM WHILE HE WAS IN A RELATIONSHIP

We had been dating, talking in 2018-2019 and when he found out I was pregnant everything changed...

🆘 help!

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