Juggling with 2 kids

Andy

Hi! I’m new to this app and also new to being a mother of 2. I have a 4 year old and a 4 month old. It’s been hard for me since I moved to a new state last year and don’t know anyone. My oldest goes to a program school for 2 1/2 hours and it’s been hard for him to adjust with other people. He’s always been around me and his father. Never really played with other kids nor take orders from other adults. He’s going through a little bit of a rebellious stage and it’s been giving me headaches. I try my best to dedicate time to both children, but since I have a 4 month old that needs a lot attention... I feel like I have been pushing my oldest away, even when I try my best to dedicate time to him. My husband works overnights because of his job, and is home in the morning but needs to rest once he gets back just to be up once again in the afternoon to go to work. He works 6 days of the week, until i find a job and he’ll be doing just 5 once again. I would love some advice on how to juggle a toddler and a baby at once.