My fiance and I have been together for almost 10 years now. We have a precious baby girl on the way and wedding date set for March! Should be the most exciting time for us, right?! WRONG! We are in an interracial relationship. I'm a black woman and he is a white man. His mom was cool when I first met her (we had been together for about 3 years at this time) polite, nice, respectable, but as the years went by she started to be mean, disrespectful, making racist remarks, and just down right ignorant. Fast forward to us being pregnant and getting married. She keeps asking him if he's sure he wants to marry me and if hes sure he wants a baby? It has caused a lot of tension because now I see that she's a racist bitch. I had always had a weird feeling about it and the last couple weeks validated how I had been feeling the past 9 years.

The last straw was her sending me and him along with his brother a video of a pregnant woman going into labor and pranking the white husband with a black baby. That was completely out of line! None of us thought it was funny! The fact that it came from her I knew it came from an ugly, malicious, vile place, and she refuses to apologize for it. I texted her about it and basically everything was my fault, she played the victim and when she commented on the color of childs skin and what her "race" will be I was completely done. I'm due in June. I've made the decision not to have her around my child, no visits and no pictures, and my soon to be husband agrees with me. I know this will only cause more trouble in the future, but I refuse to have my child around her toxic behavior. If she's treating us like this now, how will she treat our child? Am I being to harsh in my decision? How would yall respond to someone to

so ignorant?