I’ll try to keep this short.

So I’m not comfortable with my boyfriend going to strip clubs. About 3-4 years ago he went out of state to work and went to one and hid it from me for a while. Even after all this time I still feel hurt by it. Well, I decided to ask him some questions because him and I never really talked about it I just shut down once I found out. I thought him answering a couple of questions in a calm environment would give me closure. I asked him if he was okay with not doing that if him and I are dating and he seemed to get annoyed and said “I’m not going to go to one. They’re too expensive anyway. You need to stop worrying about the past.” Which i agree I need to move on but then he made a comment of “if I was going to go to one I would do it when I’m out working (he works out of state and is basically always gone). That comment has been really bothering me.. Am I over reacting or does it make sense that I’m hurt by it?