Do you think if you hate your in laws it will naturally rub off on your kids to feel the same?

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Even without trying - do you think kids pick up on these things and they automatically have a biased view?

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No but they will hear the tone in your voice when you talk about them or to them. They will see your body language. Naturally they will do what you teach them, so those little cues will rub off on them.

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If you're extremely vocal and transparent about it I do think so. Kids pick up on their parents queues however if you're reserved about it and civil then no. 
Also the relationship the grandparent has with the child can affect this too. If grandparent is 100% involved and loving g then that may trump whatever you may say but if the relationship is very minimal then it will only reinforce these negative feelings they may have picked up from a parent.

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No, my mom always told us why she didn't like someone and what they did. she let us make up our own minds about someone.I was about 10 years old when I start hating almost all my mom's side of the family. half of them have stolen money ,have lied about stuff and even cause drama when was not necessary. I had one of them come into my own room and steal a doll that was worth a lot of money and sell it.24-hours after parents found out he took it and sold it he was not aloud at the house again and he had to find a similar doll or get the doll back but he already used the money for drugs. it not just one person there is so much more s*** I could say about every last one of them what they have done to cause me no longer wants to be near or round  them. It has literally made me hate them and never ever want my future kids to know they exist.

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Of course children are very smart they're going to realize that you either don't talk about the in-laws or your negative about the in-laws love comes through us very openly so does dislike or hate I don't really care for my husband's side of the family but I will never ever ever talk negatively about them in front of my children I will never do something like that those people love my kids and my kids love them and that's all that matters

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I can’t stand my in laws at all. They suck. Me and my wife are about to adopt a baby and I’m not gonna he talking shit about them in front of my kid. I want my kid to know they have good grandparents and have the chance to love them without my opinion. My wife’s parents are older so it’ll basically be there great grandparents.

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My dad didn’t like my in-laws. I definitely noticed but didn’t feel the same way about them—I loved them! So I don’t think it necessarily rubs off

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No, I don’t think so. My mom was pretty angry at my dad for rarely being around or involved in my life. But she never ever let it snow and always told me he loved me and invited him and his family to all my birthday parties, etc. They get along well now but as an adult I realized he’s an ass for being such an absent dad most of my life. My mom still sticks up for him and says he loves me even now that I’m 36. “He just doesn’t know how to show it” 😂😂

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Only if you speak negative and Project that onto them.

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If you don’t bad mouth them and voice your opinion and also approach them in a civil manor your kids will never know 🤷🏼‍♀️ I absolutely hate my in laws but I never ever show it in front of my baby even though she’s only 10 months old and I will never voice my opinion about them in front of her

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Yes. I grew up with my dad who hated his sister. My whole life I heard him telling stories about her and just refusing to be around her and her husband at family functions. 
By the time I hit my teens, I got mad and knew there had to be two sides to the story and hated that I had cousins I didn’t know. I learned her side and his. I find them both childish but I keep my relationship with each of them separate. As a kid I only knew his side and understood his side.

Do you think if you hate your in laws it will naturally rub off on your kids to feel the same?

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