Husband dont leave but Hates me

My husband refuses to leave. We are at our home that are remodeling, we come here every weekend. This past couple of days hes just been a total ass. So today I comfronted him and asked him what bis problem was with me. He told me that hes not going to come home all lovey dovey when I have been a bitch about the money. Ladies I literally tell him let's not waste on this or on this cause we have so much. He takes it as if I am a gold digger. Literally tells me that. So I said just go back home with our oldest daughter and I'll stay here with our baby. He said fine but dont ask me for rent money or shit. I said ok that's fine. He went into the restroom an I handed him the truck keys and he yanked them and threw them at me. I asked why he do that and he said because I'm acting stupid. So I said that he doesn't want to leave but he tells me that he cant stand me or be with me. I dont know what to do. The reason that I tell him to take our oldest is because in my eyes I cant have her bouncing from house to house and especially school. I've tried all these days to tell him I love him for us to stop arguing but he isnt having it