Husband Needs something else

For weeks We have been arguing about a topic that I felt strongly about. After days of feeling like shit and us basically not talking nothing has been resolved. I honestly feel like he doesn't want to be married to me. He doesn't text me or call me. If he does it one sentence. "Did you make it to work" that's about it. He tells me I play victim etc. I read something he wrote that said he was listing after women. He apologized and said that it's something he is trying to work on. Honestly I just don't trust him. I don't trust him to protect me from hurt even if it includes him. He tells me I'm always starting mess around his family etc. He doesn't act like he wants to be with me. He says he does but deep down I know if he could be somewhere else he would. He acts like he owes me. His mom told me she doesn't think he was ready to get married etc. Like all I ask for is unconditional love inside in find myself fighting a battle alone.