My boyfriend lately has acted like he doesn't even want to be around anymore. He has distanced himself from me and our daughter, he shrugs her off all the time now which I feel is very wrong. He acts like he doesn't want to be anywhere near me, when we go to bed he doesn't bother to talk to me or hold me or anything. He sits on his phone messaging other people and then hides his phone and falls asleep. He gets super pissed off at anything I try to say anymore. And I'm not sure what's keeping him here. He is always talking about girls from work and how cool they are because they smoke weed and blah blah blah. I'm 7 weeks and 3 days pregnant with our second child, have a bad history of miscarriage, and I find myself only stressing and not trusting him while he is on his phone. He shows me absolutely no love and affection unless he is shitfaced drunk and I'm over this. He tells me if I leave I'm not taking my daughter and I cant bare to think of leaving her in the situation like that. Anything I could say to make him realize I'm about to leave and take my daughter regardless of what he has to say? He is on his phone ALL THE TIME.🤦‍♀️ like whatever on his phone is more important than me and his child. But has no problems putting his phone down to talk to his friend that is a freeloader at my house.

I'm about to blow my top. Any advice? I dont wanna hear "just leave" right off the damn bat either. Some of us like to try to fix things rather than running away from them🤷‍♀️