so the other day i discovered my husband has been watching porn, which i don’t necessarily find a big deal because i’ve watched it myself a few times in my life, but when i tried to ask/talk to him about it, he wouldn’t even acknowledge me and zoned into his phone. i guess the other upsetting part of it is that while yes, i’m 37+3 and haven’t been the most intimate with him this pregnancy, he just didn’t come to me first and talk to me about his needs versus jumping the gun and resorting to porn. i know he needs that outlet, and i can’t blame him for needing it, but i can’t help but feel upset because here i am, HUGE and very pregnant, feeling absolutely disgusting and miserable, and he’s over here watching thin, skinny brunettes getting plowed..