Started to potty train this week which daughter prompted by asking to wear big girl knickers.

past 3 days she has been completely dry but my worry is that she is holding her wee soo much, I would say she has at most 3 wee's a day but she is crying as she needs to go but will not let it out, I feel awful 😔

I can tell its hurting her holding it, but now she wont even go in her pull up nappy, I've read countless posts online. we have a wall chart.

I have tried putting her feet in warm water, which did work a few times but shes holding it that much she gets so upset then she doesn't even want to go potty or toilet, when she does finally let it out shes soo happy we make big song and dance about it, she loves it lol I just dont get why she holds it soo much, please any advice would be greatly appreciated.