Makes no sense 🤷‍♀️

whoknows

My hubbys logic is a little twisted.

I want this baby out now. I'm 37 weeks and 5 days and so uncomfortable. Always frustrated that it's a struggle to even get off the couch or out of bed.

I've wanted sex a lot because it's been helpful in the past with my other 2 and why not try it? It's better to try to get things going with sex than to just sit here and wait for something to happen. I've tried evening primrose oil, spicy food, walking, stairs..

Well anyway, this is where I get frustrated. My hubby says "I think we should just let him come when he wants to.. There's no point in rushing" And says we shouldn't be having that much sex. He doesn't want to put me into labor..

Of course when you're not the one uncomfortable and emotional and struggling with everyday tasks it's easy to say "just wait for him to come on his own. " I think we should let him come at 40 weeks"

Then when I get crabby and snippy he has the nerve to tell me I'm too crabby and I need to relax.

So you want this baby to come on his own time and just have me suffer with all the discomfort but have the audacity to tell me I need to relax and not be so crabby....

I just needed to vent.

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Sa

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My husband doesn't want to have sex either. I wanted to at least once before baby comes. We are going to have her Feb 12 and he just like nope. Lol!

Sa

Samantha • Feb 2, 2020
Well, this is our first together and he wasnt with his daughter's mother at this point in her pregnancy so I think he's definitely scared. I dont get why your hubby is worried though!

wh

whoknows • Feb 2, 2020
He's like extremely scared he's going to break my water during sex and be traumatized. My water has never broken on its own. It's always been broken by the doctor. I just don't get it. He never was scared about sex this close to my due date with the other 2.

Ll

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I’m only 36 + 3 but I’ve been on bed rest since 30. I’ve been telling my husband I am SO ready to have her out and be able to get up and move around when I want to. He completely understands but after I almost had our daughter prematurely (my water broke at 30 weeks), he is terrified of her being premature. We aren’t looking to deliver (csection) until 39 weeks due to my little one being breech. But it’s been so tough. My whole body hurts from laying in bed most the day.. muscles I didn’t even know were muscles are just sore. I’m grateful my little one is still growing and cookin but I’m ready to be done too 😂 I feel you!

wh

whoknows • Feb 2, 2020
I'm hoping he comes this week some time! I'm really trying to get him out. I can't handle much more

Ni

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