update:

I finally put my foot down. This is what I said. I’ll update as soon as he responds! Thank you ladies!

My fiancé had a friend who LOVES drama and is well known for telling people’s business. I don’t personally like her due to that and the way she acts towards me (stuck up, rude), etc. I’ve told him I don’t really like their friendship (staying the night with each other, talking all day everyday, etc). He told me he would stop Staying at her house and he did. But we still have the issue of him talking to her all the time, especially when I’m not around (he says it’s easier to talk to her when I’m not around because he doesn’t want to make me mad, but he’s being sneaky and secretive and I don’t like that). And I caught him numerous times telling her MY personal business and my kids personal business. I’ve expressed to him that I don’t see us getting married if this is gonna continue. He refuses to end the friendship and has even said I’ll go before she does. I’m at a loss of what to do. Opinions?

Also, I’ve allowed him to be friends with his exes, etc. it’s not that I’m insecure. I just simply don’t trust this woman and I don’t like who she is or how she is. I know it’s a lot of me to ask him to end a friendship but this is someone who’s really affecting our relationship.