From a mom who has had a very high mass baby and a very easy baby let me tell all you moms that you can train even a quite small baby. Very gently but very effectively. You do not HAVE to hold them all day. You do not HAVE to hold your baby to sleep. If you want to that is 10000000% ok. But essentially it is just a habit that you can gently break.

This isnt a judgmental post I'm just letting you all know you dont have to feel overwhelmed and it's ok if you do feel that way.