Sex and sex toys satisfaction

So me and my man were having sex mind you he's been sober for a couple of weeks now so he's been Cumming a lot faster than before but this time when we had sex I gave him oral then I got on top and I was just getting in the groove and he cums I was so mad because I was just about to have one of the biggest orgasms and he fucking cums I wasn't mad well a little disappointed so like I really need to cum it was gonna bother me so I went in the bathroom cut on some porn got my toy and got fucking busy but when I come out the bathroom he gets mad and tells me well we don't have to have sex anymore I'm like what you mean he's like we don't ever have to have sex anymore use your toy and now he's mad I don't understand tho