Lately I feel like my mind is somewhere else during the BD. Like it’s more of a mission to get the task done rather than enjoyment and I’m not getting turned on or anything. I feel like it’s the same thing every time and it’s not exciting or pleasurable. Getting tipsy def puts me in the mood but then nothing really happens.

My husband is on blood pressure medication and it effects his ability to get super hard and therefore it’s just “ok” 🤷‍♀️ I think he is definitely self conscious of this issue because it’s never been a problem until now. He doesn’t really initiate the bd, I do. But like I said, my mindset is “let’s get this done and hopefully I’ll get pregnant this month”. What do we do?! I’m so bored with ttc and it makes me sad.