Okay, y’all!

About a year ago my husband finally opened up to me (after 6 years together) that he wanted me to hit, squeeze, punch, kick, knee him in the balls during foreplay.

At first, I thought I would die trying. It’s not something that comes naturally, hurting your SO. But he is so vocal and moans and begs and now I love it!

However, now we have a new one. He wants me to talk to him about what I want to do to his balls while we have sex. There’s only so many descriptions I can come up with! I feel dumb! I need suggestions for what to say!

Also, he is now having an issue with coming. He can get hard and stay hard and he says it feels good but he just “loses it”. What can we do to make him come? We are ttc so this is an issue. We need that baby juice.

So my questions are:

1. Does anyone else engage in ball busting?

2. Can someone give suggestions on ball busting related dirty talk?

3. Have you had issues getting your SO to cum and if so, how did you solve this?

EDIT: Okay so I should edit because I worded that wrong. He has always had issues cumming and only started cumming at all due to the ball busting and we are not rough at all. It’s very light hitting every time. He doesn’t like the extremely hard hits. Like for example the “slaps” are more like how you would shoo a fly or knat. Not meant to harm. Just small amounts of pressure. I’ve always been very cautious because I do NOT want to hurt my honey or cause damage!