So in December I had my rainbow baby. For his birth I only wanted my mom and husband in the room which I told the nurses that. Since I lost my first baby my mother in law has made me feel like shit by saying hurtful things and not watching what she says. She doesn’t even know that we lost another baby a few months after the first miscarriage. So since she couldn’t be in the room when my son was born she decided to leave her phone in the room and record his whole birth. None of us knew that she had done this until she told my husband a few days later. Him and I are so pissed off because she has made us feel like hell for the last 2 years for losing the first baby and that she could respect our wishes enough to let us have our special moment with our son. If it would have been up to us she wouldn’t have been allowed in the hospital (don’t worry my husband agrees with my feelings towards his mom because he feels the same). I’m getting this off my chest because some of her siblings tried to make me feel bad for not including her the way I did my mom