I had a meltdown this afternoon over basically everything in life that isn't exactly how I think it should be, or how I pictured everything being set, before having kids. Now that I've typed it out, it looks kind of silly but honestly I got really upset at the thought that there's still so much my husband and I need to work to get where we want to financially and professionally and I am so anxious that we aren't where we should be when a baby arrives. We had to go through fertility treatments for like 3 yrs so it's like all of our attention and $ went to that instead of saving for other things and now that there is really a baby on the way I'm freaking out. Anyone else have anxiety/emotions like this?