Baby shower blues

So my mom and my husband don’t agree on anything for the baby shower. The location , the food, how many people to invite ... everything. I feel like I’m completely in the middle and it’s so overwhelming. I’m having trouble saying no to either of them and they just keep arguing everything about it . 🥺

Kinda just came on here to vent and see if anyone else is going through something similar. Like I thought this was going to be a happy occasion but it’s just stressful.