Alright y’all so I don’t really know where to post this but anyways me and my husband and our 1 year old daughter( she turns 1 on February 4th) lives with my husbands parents. It wasn’t our plan but due to my father in law being diagnosed with ALS also known as Lou Gehrig disease we live with them. Anyways y’all ever since our daughter was born my mother in law constantly makes remarks about her! I’m working hard with my daughter trying to get her up to speed but my mother in law acts like I’m not doing enough or like I’m not a good mom. She says things “ she really should be feeding herself by now”( she’s afraid of getting her hands dirty) “ she shouldnt be taking her bottle anymore only sippy cup”( shes picky about sippy cups) why is she not crawling”(

we have hard wood floors so she scoots instead of getting on all fours.) Y’all I’m fed up idk what to do? My husband has told her to back off nicely but she still is doing it. She makes me feel like I’m not good enough or that she could be a better mom to my daughter. She has never once told me how good I’m doing with my daughter! It’s like she makes these remarks just to piss me off.