Well, it can help with difficult news to preempt someone’s feelings when you talk to them. Like “mom, I have something difficult to tell you and I understand if you’re disappointed or angry but it would be worse to try to hide or lie.” It disarms people when you anticipate their feelings. If she gets upset maybe remind her that what’s done is done and no matter how bad this seems the only thing to do is deal with it. Be honest, and show that you understand the gravity of the situation and also that because it is so serious there’s no room for doing anything but taking responsibility. If nothing else keep this truth in your own heart so no matter what your mind stays clearly set on your best interests. You got this, believe in yourself 💛