This is baby number 3 for us and I'm having a hard time deciding when to tell family and friends. Social media is finding out on valentines day so im needing to tell family and friends earlier than that but im so scared of a negative reaction since no one really wanted us to have another baby. Since our oldest potentially has autism (still waiting on official diagnosis) and the middle kiddo had to have tons of surgeries and has a potential genetic disorder that could (maybe) affect this baby. I'm sooo nervous to tell anyone and have contemplated on keeping it a secret until it's just about time to have baby or until baby gets here 😂 I'm 8 weeks 4 days today and I know I have some time but my anxiety is getting the best of me lol