I just don’t know anymore

I’m currently pregnant with my 3rd child and someone I thought loved me so much was being so truthful and honest with me. Well last time I seen him was Sunday at 1am when he left my place. He hasn’t said a word to me in almost two days besides him saying he wanted a drink from the place I went to this morning. One message in over 48 hours. Long story short my friends contacted him to let him know I was probably going to go in cause I wasn’t doing well. Supposedly he said I don’t wanna hear about it unless she’s in labor and then they popped off and told me that he’s been going out on dates with other hoes yes I said hoes because I consider this home wrecking on both ends especially when he’s telling me he wants to fix things with me so we can be a family. I have no idea what to believe or feel.

So before we found out I was pregnant our relationship wasn’t on good terms and we decided to stay friends well a few weeks later to a month later we found out I’m pregnant. If he’s really going out with other people I find it disrespectful on his end because I’m no where trying to go out on dates with other people or anything else. Idk what to do. I love him but I want respect. At this moment I feel like he’s just using me to watch his kid and he’s using me for sex.