Does this usually happen?

Okay so me and my fiancé are getting married in April and I’ve been trying really hard to plan this wedding and make it everything he wants as well as I want and I try to ask him things about it because I dont want him to be surprised about anything if it’s not something he wants come that day BUT he wants nothing to do with the planning. He’ll say it’s too much at one time or it’s overwhelming and I’ll ask him one question. I try to not bring it up as much but there are some things I need to ask him to make sure he is okay with and I’m just getting kind of upset because he is acting like it’s a something super hard or that he’s doing the planning. I’m just asking him some things he would/wouldn’t like to do. Is this usually what a guy does in the planning process 😩