Me and my boyfriend have been together for 3 years. I love him dearly but lately we have been arguing over the smallest things. He is very quick tempered over small things. Most of our arguments are due to his temper. We communicate well though. After we spend most of the day irritated at each other, which is something new for us, he just told me that things aren’t how they used to be. We don’t have sex often (but when we do its amazing), we don’t intimately touch anymore besides cuddling. We haven’t been going out on many dates but that is mostly because we are both struggling college students, trying to save money.

Sometimes he will want to have sex and doesn’t say anything until we are laying in bed and I’m tired. He gets disappointed at me for that. I have been stressed with classes since its my last semester in college so my focus has been on graduating and preparing for life after graduation. Sex just isnt on my mind like that anymore. We are only 21 but it feels like we are an old couple that lost our spark.

I don’t know what to do at this point. Hopefully you guys have some tips.