So ive hot this very close "friend" who's been kind of horrible to me the past few years. Actually, she's been worst than before for a couple of months maybe a year.

She tells me i have no boobs and no ass or says something like that frequently. At one point, it was at least one time everytime I saw her. She told me it was just jokes. When I get excited or happy about something, she would often ridicule it. I have a boyfriend that I love but the fist time I went out with him and that friend, she told me later that she told a friend we would kiss too much and it was too intense. After that, I tried not to kiss him in front of my friends anymore. But then, after I told her we often have sex and I like it (hes my first so im discovering it) she began to make unpleasant comments about it everytime she could, as if she would want to make me feel disgusting or ashamed about having sex often with my bf.

In my opinion, she's got a very low self esteem and thats why she act this way. Its like she doesn't see how hurtful she can be.

But then, a few days ago, someone told me shes been telling i was a really bad friend because shes been feeling bad for 2 weeks and it looks like i dont care. Its true thats shes been saying comments like "i dont know what to do with my life anymore" (she took a break from school since she doesnt have motivation) and ive been ignoring them. Hearing that she tells poeple im the bad friend after all shes done to me made me really mad. Ive decided ive had enough, so i told her all she did to me and how shes been making me miserable for so long. I told her I was done. She didnt apologize. She told me "everything is my fault like always! Ive been feeling really bad and you're telling me all that. I already feel like shit. I have depression".

She says the word depression but no doctor diagnosed her depression, its out of the blue. I dont know if i should feel bad for finally wanting to stop this relationship in such a bad time for her. Am i a bad person?

Curious

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