Has anyone else related?

Hey guys, so I just got fingered for the first time yesterday but here’s the thing. I have very long and full labia that hang out. Since it is so prominent the skin covers over my clit and makes it hard to even find my vaginal opening. The guy was attempting to rub my clit but the whole time I was embarrassed and self conscious because he couldn’t find it and instead was rubbing my exposed labia. After I while of that he gave up and started fingering me but it took a while for him to find that too. He has experience so it’s not that he doesn’t know what he’s doing, it’s that I have too much down there. Has anyone else delt with it. How do I become more confident.