My son is 10 almost 11 months old and I still have no desire to have sex. My hubby and I only have sex maybe 1 to 2 times a month. I feel bad for him cuz I'm sure hed be up for more but I just dont have the desire. Not that his drive is super high either but its definitely more than mine right now. We didn't do much during my pregnancy as at first I was worried something would happen and then I just didnt have the energy. And then I was in so much pain after delivery I made him wait until 12 weeks and even then it still hurt the first few times after. I'm mind boggled with these women saying that it has been so hard to wait to have sex like 2 weeks after they give birth and sitting over here 10 months post partum and am fine without it. What is wrong with me?? Is it normal for the sex drive to take this long to come back?!?