So sex has always hurt for me. Wearing tampons has also hurt same with when I get fingered. Is this normal? I'm 17 and I've had sex a few times and it always hurts. I act like it doesn't so my partner doesn't get his feelings hurt but I just don't enjoy it. Foreplay is fun for me but not the actual intercourse. Is this normal? I've gotten checked for stds and I am clean. Also I was raped at a very young age. Could that be why? I ask because I tried to use my diva cup and my hips and legs gave out from the pain. I'm starting to think that I will never be able to enjoy sex.