Social media is ruining my realationship!
I’ve been dating for 9 months, and I’ve gotten very uncomfortable with my bf instagram use, at one point he liked a lot of pictures of women showing too much and I explained to him how I felt disrespected and hes learning and stopped for a bit. And he confessed to me he was struggling with it and I felt so sad bc he was lusting after other women and I felt like I wasn’t good enough. And I had to accept that he would find others attractive and that’s fine. But it’s not okay when it becomes his world, and I could tell it was. We had mutual pages we followed and they posted pictures of sexy women, and I knew he saw them but didn’t like them. And I just felt so heart broken. I didn’t look like those women and I can’t post pictures like that out of respect for myself. But it made me very insecure, and protective. Even with the super bowl shakira and jlo looking amazing shaking their butts killed me bc I know my bf saw and he was probably attracted. We are taking a break from social media but it left a lot of damage. I started eating less and going to the gym and I wanted to prove to myself I could be enough and that’s on me. I’m not blaming him for anything.
Is this enough to break up with someone?
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