Please no judgment. I’ve had an EXTREMELY low sex drive since baby has been born. I always have had a low sex drive but I feel like it’s at an all time low. I don’t know what it is. I’m 6month postpartum and I still havnt had sex. My husband is patient with me and dosnt pressure me but I also feel guilty. I guess I havnt figured out how to turn off mom mode yet. Also.. my husband turned down a job just after baby was born that would have made a lot more money. Long story short I was really upset with him bc we had discussed it in length together and decided it was the best fit for our family. It allowed me to stay home for a bit longer and would help us get our own place faster etc. Then he told his parents and they freaked out (the dad works at the company he would have left). After that he got cold feet and turned down the job. I’m very resentful to his parents (but that’s a whole other story) and I felt a lot of resentment towards my husband for a while. It’s gotten significantly better and we’ve talked about it and I thought we’ve moved past it but we are now looking for a house and those feelings are coming back strong. It keeps me up at night. Anyways I think that’s part of the reason that I just can’t do it. I don’t know how to get past this.