Off the rip, I know it’s a terrible thing and idk what brought me to it. But I got my MIL phone and it showed me that she is a very two-faced person. We have always gotten along, at least I thought, but she talks about me like crap. In the past I discovered that she was encouraging my fiancé’s ex (who she also talked about like a dog and said she’s bad for him) when my fiancé’s ex confided in her that she wanted him back and was going to propose...while we were together and I was 3 months pregnant with our second child....

That was a couple years ago.

This year I allowed her to live in my home for free, and she never helped with the kids, or with the house or ANYTHING but I didn’t complain. Then she would be gone for weeks at a time and come back to stay in the room that she has all to herself while our sons all sleep in the same room and our baby has to sleep with us. Well she has not stepped foot in our house in over 3 months, but nearly all of her things are still in that room. She never discussed moving out or anything for us to finally utilize that room. I never said anything to her because I didn’t want to start anything and left it up to my fiancé but he never had that talk with her. Come to find out, she’s moved in with a friend...never said a word to us. Using our home as her personal storage facility pretty much.

Come to find out she was talking bad about me all while she was using me for a place to stay and using us for rides to where she needed to be etc. she called me out my name, and talked about me not cleaning (i was working nearly 10 hours a day without breaks to come home and take care of 4 children and a house by myself, while this freeloader sat around and complained that I didn’t clean up after working all day). Since seeing all that I’m just REALLY bothered and wanna talk to my fiancé, and that means confessing that I snooped. I don’t plan on confronting her at all I just want to let him know where I stand as far as a relationship with her and ever helping her out in the future. I want to distance myself from that negativity, keep it cordial and that’s all 😓