Just venting.... Soooo this is a surprise baby and we have names chosen but just had a conversation with the hubby about the girl names ... His story is he doesn't want to be part of picking out the girl name since he said it isn't his place and he feels weird about it for etc... He believes he doesnt want to get in to trouble haha like putting a name that reminds him of an ex then me finding out or names that have sexual actress haha he is weird Soo I said okay that fine so he told me I can go ahead and choose since we had boys he was able to choose theirs . I told him the name I liked and it's similar pronounced as his best friend daughter and he said maybe not thY name since it would be weird and they would have about the same Nick name. I told him it's our baby and yeah I thought about it but who cares . So now he isn't sure to still name the baby that name . We still have a chance it might not be a girl we will have to wait and see . 8 more days to go.