I had my first child 3 months ago and once I got cleared from the doctor my husband and I tried to have sex but as expected it was very painful almost like being a virgin again. The doctor said it would take time because it was tight which he said was completely normal after healing from having a baby. My issue is I wanna have sex with my husband but we have tried 2 times and it’s been very painful. The second time we tried it was better but about 15 minutes in I had to stop because it started hurting again. Have any of you been through this? I wanna enjoy sex and ofcourse have that closeness with my husband again. He wants to have sex all the time but I guess because it hurts I’m hesitant.