So I had sex for the first time four days ago. Afterwards, I couldn’t walk right or sit comfortably, I felt really swollen, whenever I peed, I bled a lot, when I wiped it hurt like hell. I felt like this for four days. So I talked a relative and asked why am I hurting so much... she said I could have possibly ripped... So I examine myself and I see I have a tear.

And I’m kinda lowkey embarrassed about the whole situation because I know why I ripped - I wasn’t wet enough and he forced it. Idk if I should wait to heal or if this is something I should get checked for?? Should I go get checked? It’s been four days and I don’t know if I’ll be too.. late or something?