Can clit happen?

Steph

I'm 33 years old and have very little experience playing with my clit. My husband would love to be able to play with me without me giggling. I'm nervous! I don't know what it's supposed to feel like. When I was in high school I used to wiggle in my seat and that felt good but beyond that I never did anything else. I saw it more like the area where pee came from than a sexual object. What do I do with this thing?