I’m really upset with my roommate rn. She sleeps in a room next to me and there’s a bathroom next to us. It’s not sound proof.

At the beginning of the year she set up a bunch of cleaning rules and threatened to kick us, mainly me, out. She’s OCD, like actually diagnosed with it. She hand warned us but we thought it was a joke.

If my dishes, MINE, are in the sink for that 24 hours she sends a nasty text.

She’s kept me up before, like a 3 am when she decided to rearrange the bathroom we share.

Last night she was up from 12-2 on speaker with her boyfriend and then again at 7.

I’m already sick from lack of sleep this week, I get really bad migraines.

I’m 21, and want to text this. My mom says it’s a bad idea as it will “cause rifts” and start a fight and I shouldn’t blame her because she has OCD.

I should add I go to school full time and she doesn’t. I typically stay up till midnight and if I know I’m gone alone stay up watching videos, but last night I was, again, really sick.

You might wonder why I didn’t say something last night, well I didn’t realize I’d be up again at 7

I could drop “because it really sucks not being able to sleep”

She’s never home at should add. Her family lives in town and so does her boyfriend she she will be gone weeks at a time and just suddenly comes here.

My mom says she will start ranting how she has every right to stay up talking because she pays the same as me and yeah sure she can, but with headphones!

I’d also like to add that I am not a perfect roommate, but i also know that unless you went into my bedroom you’d think only two people lived him. I’m very clean myself and have had to deal with them using my dishes, paper plates, I can’t even have food here because they keep so much in the fridge, EVEN BREAD

EDIT:

I should state I never keep dishes in the sink for 24 hours unless I am sick or just have a couple spoons. Our other roommate, V, keeps her stuff in, including pots and pans, for weeks at a time. Annika keeps he stuff in the drying rack.