Grossed out by genetailia?

Question

For some reason I have a large aversion to most genitals. Penis, vagina. Doesn't matter. Both kindof gross me out.
I don't understand this. And it's not helping me in bed with my partner who has a totally fine set of genitals.
Is this just me? Or have any other women felt this way? Any advice for overcoming it?

Answer

Your feelings are valid. I mean we do pee, and have discharge, and other fluids. I get it. Have you talked with a therapist about how you feel? They may have the best advice for overcoming it. My advice is make sure you guys are practicing good hygiene before being intimate. Maybe spend some time in bed naked all day together to familiarize and normalize each others parts. Spendings some time by yourself exploring yourself could help as well. I’m 35 years old and only since hitting my 30’s have I become confident with my body image and comfortable with self exploration. I have identified as Pan for awhile now but I’ve always thought genitals were weird looking. But after 16 years with my partner I do very much love his parts lol. I don’t if I’ve helped but yeah you’re not alone in your thoughts.

Grossed out by genetailia?

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