My ex is hands down one of the most confusing people. He broke up with me because he just didn’t feel the same way about me anymore. Fine to be honest I don’t really either but he’s the father of my baby which makes things more complicated. He then texted me a few weeks later saying he’s sorry and if we could talk and clear the air in person. I said fine.

Then when I meet him he starts tearing up saying that he misses me so much, proceeds to grab me and hug me and tell me how much he misses me and pulls me over to sit in his lap so he can just hug me. He kept telling me I love you so much, it was a mistake and that he’s so sorry. For the sake of our son I thought ok I’ll give it one more shot but if I said I didn’t miss him at all at the point I’d be lying too.

We see each other everyday after that. He’s constantly telling me how much he loves me and is so happy we’re together. Then out of no where his attitude changed. A month later he told me, I lied about all of it. I thought if I didn’t tell you I love you and didn’t hang out a lot I wouldn’t be trying. I informed him that there’s no need to be fake about it and that’s what aggravates most. Why shower me with affection and dump me again before Valentine’s Day? Why even try to get me back??

Unfortunately this isn’t the first time he’s done this, he gets in this funk where he reverts back to a teenagers mentality and doesn’t leave his room and just plays video games all day unless he has work. People would say oh he must be with someone else but I can see that he literally is online playing games all day and night. I just don’t get his mentality or reasoning. He’s super hot and cold.

It’s stupid that I even have to complain about this considering he’s in his mid 20’s. I feel I’d have to deal with this in high school.

People can say I play into it but he’s so convincing that the first few times I believed him. I no longer do which is why I’m venting because I know this relationship is over.

Also I forgot to add that he’s completely let himself go which also leads me to believe there’s no one else. I’ve never been a shallow person but it’s gotten to the point where I lost all attraction. I wouldn’t care If he was a nice guy but well he’s not lol. Anytime I’ve been cheated on I noticed new grooming habits 🤷🏻‍♀️ who knows though but I doubt it