I’m getting annoyed by people constantly saying “dilation means nothing” (mostly in another group I’m in) I feel as though even though it’s true you can sit at 1-3 centimeters for weeks, it means that when real labor comes you already started dilating and it can help with a quicker labor. Im sure it’s not always the case but I think already being dilated before labor sounds good to me! Less work. It also means your body is preparing and that is EXCITING. To know that it’s almost time is such a happy awesome feeling. Sorry if this post isn’t allowed I am just sick of other people constantly raining on others parades for being excited to see your body preparing for your baby. If you do not agree with a post of think about commenting something that isn’t going to help, scroll on. Your opinions are not always needed✌🏻