If he has 6,000 pictures on his phone should I expect him to go through and delete pics w/ his ex?

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They broke up one year ago, and were together for 8 years.

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No. That sounds like such a hassle. Their just pictures. Regardless of you being comfortable with it or not, they created memories together. Memories that’ll never go away. If he’s not lusting over the pics then I wouldn’t worry about it

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Personally I do not keep pictures of my exs. I find that weird, we’re no longer together and I find it inappropriate for me to keep them. That’s for me personally, but I feel it should be the same for my partner

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Idk why people think this is an insecure jealousy thing, it’s not. It’s weird to keep pictures of your exes. If you don’t have feelings towards your exes then it should be no problem to be deleted/thrown out. Now, 6,000 pictures is a lot it would take hours-days to even go through all and would understand if he doesn’t delete the one with his exes.

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If someone asked me to delete photos of me and my ex I’d tell them to start steppin’. I’m not deleting my past life because you have jealousy and insecurity issues. Grow up. 
I’m still best friends with my oldest’s dad, and I’m getting married in June.

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No. He had a life before you and is allowed to have memories from it.

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No, that’s ridiculous

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I delete them anyway. I don’t want to remember them. I actually cut up a picture of me and an ex from my junior year of high school a long time ago. I also delete them off my social media because I don’t want any type of contact with them.

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When my husband and I got married we were going through our photo albums together, mine from growing up and his from growing up. I came across his grad photos and lots more that had his ex in them. He took the initiative to throw them out himself. I told him it wasnt necessary because I know he doesnt feel anything towards her any more and they are still memories he has. I am not insecure about my husband having pictures with his ex because I trust him 100%.

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Its 100% unnecessary to have pictures of your exes on your phone. Memories or not, that was the fucken past. Delete that shit & move on! I'd be so annoyed if my husband was stupid enough to keep pics of his exes.

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Only if they're inappropriate/sexual

If he has 6,000 pictures on his phone should I expect him to go through and delete pics w/ his ex?

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