I need some advice... I don’t know if I’m doing the right thing.. Me and my boyfriend have been together for 2 yrs.. at the beginning of our relation he had doubts he was able to pull through because he was a major player even tried to break up with me because of his self conflict before he settled down with me, of course me being the stubborn person I am I convince him to play it out and see what happened... and here we are 2yrs later and he told me today that he started to doubt himself, he confessed to me that he has the strong urge to talk to other people, and do things... and I give him credit for having the balls and the trust in me to tell me this... and now I don’t know what to do, he says he loves me and it would break his heart if he hurt me.. but then goes and tells me he has urges with other people, to the point where he’s dreaming of it .. I asked if it’s mutual people that we know but states that he can’t see their face.. I’m conflicted because any rational person would say that if one truly loved someone they wouldn’t be having those urges.. then my hearts is saying to give him the benefit of the doubt because of his past and player ways ... at this point I don’t know what to do I’m torn.. I want to help him, he thinks going to therapy is going to help.. but then tells me that he’s not ready to grow up and wants to live his teen years.. and then tells me he seriously thinks of us being married and such... I’m very confused, hurt, and conflicted. (I’m just a few months older than him)