It will take a month to get my daughter in at her doctors and I’d rather her get checked now

She’s been tugging at her ears, running a temp,runny nose, and coughing and just now started throwing up

Should I just wait a month and her get worse or better or just take her to the er we also have no walk in clinics near

Her doctor took 2 months to get her in for her 9 month appointment and we also had a time she was very sick and wouldn’t keep anything down and her doctor did nothing so we had to go to the er

We’re also on a military base and that might explain why the doctor sucks so much I tried to make an appointment for her but her one year birthday was the earliest they could see her and said I could just let it run it’s course but she can barley eat because she’s so stuffy and coughing a lot and just plain out not feeling good

We will be going to the er after she wakes up because it’s so hard seeing her likes this my husband and I are also sick now ☹️🙁