“Stop trying and it will happen”

Everyone says this to me - but HOWWWW do you stop thinking about something you want so very badly!?

I know my cycle like the back of my hand so I know when my ovulation days are and when is the best time to dtd, how do I just turn that off?!?! It’s so frustrating and I honestly try to relax and just let it happen but my mind is not cooperating.

Any ideas on what I could do? I work 40 hours a week, we just got a puppy and he keeps us busy, but nothing has seemed to work. 😫