Ok im 20 and my bf who is 23 recently started dating. This is 3 weeks into the relationship! HE ALWAYS GETS LIKE EVERY SINGLE TIME I GO OUT WITH MY FRIENDS LIKE IF I EVER DID ANYTHING TO HIM TO LOSE HIS TRUST.

I have to keep my location on always or else he throws a fit. i never turned it off. it went off cause my

phone was dead but once i saw his message i sent my location to him right away. and hes saying i don’t make time to go see him when i asked him a day prior if we can spend the day together but he couldn’t cause he had work and i EVEN OFFERED TO STOP BY AND SEE HIM AT WORK WHILE I WAS OUT WITH MY FRIENDS AND HE STILL SAID NO? Sorry for the caps but im just so frustrated at this point. im i doing something wrong?!!

update

Hey everyone, i appreciate your advice and big support. It’s insane how much a single person can impact your whole life and mindset over all. A day after this post, him and i went on a date, however it ended really bad (no surprise). At some point i brought up the topic

on how it wasn’t right for him to have my location, and get upset with me for little things. I told him how it made feel so trapped and scared to hang out with my friends or go anywhere in fear that it might make him upset. He got extremely offensive and started calling me all types of name. Saying how horrible and inconsiderate person i am. Making me feel guilty for trying to “hide” my location and that it was an excuse to go be a “slut” and ruin other peoples lives. Making fun of my mental health and much more

awful stuff that really did hurt. I went home that night and for some reason i believed every thing he said. Iv been dealing with depression the past few years so i fight my own thoughts a lot but when you hear those exact same words from someone else, especially someone you love, it just hurts differently. I finally convinced myself that he was right and i didn’t deserve anything.

That night i took as much xanax i could possibly find and tried to finish every alcoholic drink i had in the house. I don’t remember much besides walking myself to a interstate i live close by and then waking up strapped to a hospital bed. I remember seeing him show up at the hospital and soon as i saw him i started crying hysterically.

I haven’t seen him since then and i don’t plan on ever speaking to him again. It’s upsetting how it had to get to this point for me to realize that i needed to end the relationship with him. Even though we only dated for about a month, we talked prior to that for about 8 months and i was so stupid to see the red flags back.

Thanks for all the love and support. I am doing better today , it will take some time but i will get there!

And if any other girl is stuck in the same problem, please let this be an example and leave before it’s so late!!!!