So I gave my son the sex/puberty talk.. He ended up giving ME the sex talk back ๐
So yesterday I made a post about giving my 16 year old son the sex/puberty talk. I sat him down a couple of hours ago and I started to talk about the basics, things like genitals and all of that. So I start talking about the female genitals and when I say vagina he goes "Vulva." I said what? And he goes "Vagina is the entrance" And I nodded slowly, cleared my throat and continued. Then I started talking about sex, explaining what it is, and how it should only be used for reproduction but humans wrongfully turned it into a pleasure thing. Then I started talking about STDS and when I brought up chlamydia he goes "Well that's actually an STI" I'm getting flustered over here so I move into pregnancy. I tell him what condoms are and that they do not always work, I talk to him about what pulling out is and that it is extremely ineffective, and I talk about female ovulation and he starts to look bored. I tell him that there's a high risk of pregnancy every time you have sex and he says "Sometimes it's a low risk because women aren't always ovulating. It's a cycle, but yeah the risk is still there regardless." At that point in just like yup, I'm done. I grip his shoulder and ask him where does he know all of this from? I have parental controls on his phone so he couldn't have looked it up lol. He just shrugs and asks me if he can go back to his room now. I asked him up he's having sex and he jumped up all defensive repeatedly saying no. Then he rushed back upstairs. So now I will be searching his room later ๐
I can't believe this happened loool
Update: Yup found condoms and a fleshlight ๐
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