So my husband is a shy person, well at least I thought, hes never really had friends since we have been together (he drifted apart from them), hes never keen to really go socialise, out of the events we've had he hasnt been keen on inviting work people to them, even the ones he works with everyday, doesnt go to the Christmas parties etc

But randomly he tells me that next week hes going out with some work people cause someone is leaving, when I asked who he was very vague on details, so I left it.

Today he brings it up again offering more info, it's some girl in the sales office that's leaving.....my husband never goes to anything hes invited to when it comes to work, theres been retirements, leavers, birthdays and even weddings in the past hes had invites for and never gone to any- until now....why is this woman's leaving meal so special that he has to go? Am I overthinking this?

We have been together 9 years, have one baby together and recently (last week) suffered a miscarriage- I feel like my hormones are out of whack still and I'm thinking too much into this....