So how do things go down? Of course I want to hold and spend time with my baby out I will be tired and definitely want a shower.

How quickly will they allow me to shower?

If I have family waiting outside will they ask me when it’s okay to bring them in or just tell them? I will let people know before hand what I want but I’m worried about my MIL just doing what she wants... if I have doctors to help it would mean the world.

Can you share your after birth experience?